why is it that there are just some people who doesnt know how to value or even thank you for the kindness you've shown them? why is it that there are these kind of friends who will just remember to call you or text you when they need you? after you've been there to sympathize with them or even help them out, they suddenly disappear! the kind of friends who will abuse you, and take you for granted. and when your'e the one in need, they have either changed their numbers, or they just have all the possible reasons in the world not to have received or reply to your msg ! i call them 'friends with benefits'...
then there are those who know nothing but to talk and talk about their selves and their problems like nothing else matters but their world and their problems. they constantly complain about everyday life, surrounding you with all the negative energy and they are like black holes that seems to subtly drain you because of the negative energy they release. and they always have issues. i call them ' self-centered friends'....
there are also those who have genuine feelings of concern and affection for you. those who will tell you that they'll always be there for you. those who will send thousands of forwarded msgs always to show you that they have never forgotten you. yet not even once, have they really reached out to you and when you're the one who's reaching out to them, again they have all the reasons in the world! so why the hell, tell me that you'll always be there for me when you're really not! i call them 'my so-called friends'
there are also these types of friends who give advice not out of concern but solely to hear themselves sound righteous. they are imposing and opinionated. and you often hear these words from them 'see told ya!'. they will always make you feel that they were right about everything, and if only you took their advice none of this bullshit will happen to you. i call them 'know-it-all friends'
there are also certain friends who will always make you feel bad about yourself. they are the ones who will make you feel that you're stupid when you're around them. they often ask you're opinion first in front of everyone and they'll share their opinions as well and explain it in a way that what you have just said is nothing compared to what they said! i call them 'suck-up friends'
there are also some who maybe a combination of these traits. and to be fair... i too have downsides, im not a perfect friend, but ill talk about myself some other time, not in this blog. i dont easily make friends, that's why when you become my friend, i'll trust you with all my heart! but there are just some who are not worth to be trusted, they will betray you, hurt you, use you and take you for granted. and out of the blue they'll try to make up with you, as if nothing happened! please get lost and dont ever try to patch things up! i can be civil but that doesnt mean, everything will go back to what it was before... because i cant live with a lie, i simply dont like you anymore! please dont be insensitive and stop sucking up!
